Projection is attributing one’s own feelings, actions, or traits to someone else. Through projection, Narcissists blame their Target and deny accountability for the abuse. If they lie, you are the liar; if they are childish, you are immature; if they insult you, you are critical; if they demand reassurance, you are insecure. When a Narcissist accuses makes these kinds of accusations, they are, often ironically, admitting to their own behavior.